So, career subjects vs. depression. My favourite topic.
NOTE - This whole blog will be based on the life of students of India.
A class 10th student sometimes takes that kind of subjects which makes him/her feel regret throughout his/her upcoming 2 years, and maybe throughout life. Some students are pressurised to take specific subjects like Medical/Non-Medical. Some students who don't get pressurised, still take subjects of parents choice because they are obedient ones, who very well understand the thinking of their parents. But believe me, those who don't get pressurised but still takes difficult subjects/subjects which their parents always wanted their child to take, are the ones who suffer the most throughout their lives.
According to Indian parents, in India, there are only 2 subjects which can make a person successful, that are Medical and Non-Medical i.e. Either Doctor or Engineer. Some parents who have complete knowledge of other subjects know very well that with which subjects their child should go for will never let their child take medical and non-medical.
Mine only advise to everyone, if you are reading it as a student - do that thing, which you always wanted to do. Because once you get in a particular stream, it will be the toughest thing for you to leave it. Neither you will be able to study it nor you will be able to leave it and then there will be only one thing around you - Depression. Talk with your parents what you want to do.
I might be very small to say the upcoming words, but if you are reading it as a parent, I know that it will be very difficult for you to say yes to your child to let him/her choose his/her favourite subjects. But tell me one thing, if you will pressurise your child now and if he/she becomes what you want in future, will he/she be happy to do that specific work..?
Today in India in 2021, the biggest competition is in Medical subject. Almost 17 million students give one exam (NEET-UG) at the same time and same date, and that exam which takes place only once a year. Each year 1 million students keep on increasing for this exam.
There are only 41.3k government seats, 35.5k private college seats (which includes a fee of 15 million/1.5 crores.)
Medical study is of almost 10 years (class11 and class 12 + MBBS (5 years) + 1-year internship + MD (3 years.) Ask your child once, will he/she be able to do it..? I am not saying there is no FUN during the whole journey. But there is a study also, which is tough.
Just compare 18 million students with 77k seats. Where's the opportunity..?
Always take that path where there are fewer people, where there is some darkness. But obviously, if you always wanted to take that path, you will succeed easily as you most probably be knowing the amount of hard work to be done in that field, as you might be knowing what you will be studying throughout the field.
If you didn't get what I wanted to say I think I am having a specific video that can explain what I wanted to say - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8XKvERR4L30
Talking about FAILURES. Värnik claims India's adjusted annual suicide rate is 10.5 per 100,000, while the suicide rate for the world as a whole is 11.6 per 100,000. In India, most of the suicides are committed by students. Most of the students are from the medical and non-medical stream. Some commit suicides as they don't get the expected marks.
One of my senior friend committed suicide by jumping into a river because he scored nearby 98 percentile in JEE main exam, and he expected 99 percentile.
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